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a set of Ben Wa balls or kegel balls—small spheres that a woman can insert to enhance her sexual pleasure (and are not designed to cause pain)—she finds they make her "needy, needy for sex." Though she doesn't like being bossed around, she does enjoy sex with Christian when he ties her up (which, incidentally, happens all of once, if I've counted correctly, in the first novel of the trilogy), for instance, and also finds herself aroused when he delivers a light whipping with a riding crop. Could it be that 50 Shades is so alluring because it's a mainstream book—being read by celebrities,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], housewives, and co-workers—whose popularity gives straight women permission to think about what they might enjoy in bed,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and to ask their partners to explore alternate sexual scenarios with them? "I think that's right on," says Carol Queen, a sexologist who works at Good Vibrations, a San Francisco-based adult toy and education company. "I don't for one minute think that most ladies are secret bondage-hounds